June 10th, 2025
Members of the Bethesda Community Garden Club tour UD’s pollinator garden this afternoon.

They had many questions, all of which I tried to answer. Lots of people came through. I loved it, but am now exhausted.

June 9th, 2025
Les UDs visited a young friend of theirs in Olney MD last week…

… and on the way UD reminded Mr UD: “Don’t say anything about his job! Don’t even say the word job.”

Their friend not long ago got his dream job at the Dept. of Education; then, in a matter of weeks, in a DOGE sweep, he was fired. He and his wife have just bought a house; a baby is on the way!

So we said absolutely nothing; but somehow the matter came up, and he explained.

“I’ve already gotten a new job in DC, in education. AND I’m still getting full salary from the DOE because of a court case. I’ve got two jobs.”

“Man, K. and I were doing SO well not mentioning your sad situation and now this??”

Details here.

June 6th, 2025
In preparation for the Bethesda Garden Club tour, Mr UD updates his map of our garden.
June 5th, 2025
Snapshots from Home: Plant theft at Brookside Gardens.

‘[The garden’s director] once saw a man taking pods off the cacao trees, and when he confronted him, the man’s justification was that he’s a taxpayer and Brookside Gardens is publicly funded.

June 5th, 2025
Meet at Strathmore Avenue, Garrett Pk, MD, from 10 to noon.
June 3rd, 2025
Snapshots from Home: The Kennedy Center

Post-Trump grab, the place is tanking.

‘Following Trump Takeover, Kennedy Center Subscription Sales Drop 36%’

The arts institution has seen a $1.6 million year-over-year decline in subscription revenue, with theater subscriptions down more than 80% since Donald Trump’s takeover.

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My nephew, a spectacular singer (runs in the family), is in the Washington National Opera chorus, and will be part of their upcoming Aida. La Kid and I will be in the audience, but we wonder how many will be with us in the opera house. Will the troupe outnumber us?

Strange how everything turn turn turns. When I was a kid Bethesdans had to drive ten miles at night down the GW Parkway to see first-rate classical stuff at the Kennedy Center; since then, thanks in part to my uncle (my nephew’s grandfather), Les UDs have had a significant concert hall, Strathmore, a fifteen minute walk away.

Because of what Trump just did to the Kennedy Center, the significance of the Music Center at Strathmore has suddenly taken an enormous leap — several performers/productions that would have been in the city are now in the suburbs.

The suburbs that ain’t very suburban anymore. Seen downtown Bethesda lately?

May 30th, 2025
First part of my Leopold Bloom costume arrives.

Theme of this year’s Garrett Park July 4 parade is The Novel, and UD is going as Ulysses. I’ll be tossing lollipops that say READ ULYSSES to the throngs.

May 19th, 2025
Find the hidden Pole worrying about the results of the last…

election.

May 6th, 2025
UD knows it’s a small point, but…

… they’re misspelling my uncle’s last name. It’s Mario Loiederman.

And how proud he’d be to know his namesake school has achieved all-American status!

May 1st, 2025
‘It’s a hard and thankless job, caring for old people who may be incontinent, fall down, have dementia that may make them aggressive, and suffer many other physical and emotional needs – a job that few people with other options want.’

A long, unsparing consideration of old age care in America makes me think of my conversation yesterday with a 92-year old friend. We met near the Foggy Bottom metro and walked together through Washington Circle to a lunch date with a third friend. I asked my buddy what she’d been up to.

“Going through a lot of stuff and throwing most of it out,” she answered. “I don’t want to leave my daughter with too much to handle when I’m gone.”

My friend is sharp-witted and physically robust; she lives alone in an elegant apartment in the chic part of Alexandria, Virginia. “Is your health okay?” I asked. “Is anything wrong?”

“Not a thing. But I’m looking into Zurich.”

“Why?”

“My biggest fear is becoming dependent. I just can’t handle that prospect at all. I’d rather avoid it.”

“But I mean there’s independent living, etc. There are all sorts of steps between living fully on your own and being really dependent.”

“Not really. All my friends who made any sort of move in that direction went downhill very fast and I desperately don’t want that.”

We went on to discuss the bureaucratic details of the Swiss way of death versus the apparently more burdensome administrative niceties of what Washington DC offers. And then, both of us smiling in the city sunlight, we met our friend at a hotel cafe and enjoyed lunch together.

April 25th, 2025
A guy from Navis showed up this afternoon…

to take three of our old family portraits to the Museum of Noble Tradition in Poland, where there will apparently be a Soltan room.

April 21st, 2025
Bouquet taken from my garden…

… for the Easter meal.

April 18th, 2025
My first customer.

Joanna Soltan walks the Bonhoeffer Circle.

April 17th, 2025
Lighting is in. A “Bonhoeffer” sign will be here soon. Some additional plantings, and we’re done.
April 15th, 2025
Update, Bonhoeffer Meditation Garden

Not a labyrinth, but a walking circle, around vinca and a crape myrtle. Set among trees in the surrounding woods are chairs, tables, potted plants, wind chimes, small sculptures, and other objects. Xavier and his crew bring various forms of lighting soon. Still to come: Water feature. Fire pit. Etc.

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